Filipino Mail Order Brides

Filipina Mail Order Brides, Fact Or Fiction?

If you think you have gone nuts when you think of marrying somebody you met on a bride site from the other side of the world, you are wrong. In fact, it should not matter where or how you found the woman who will be your wife as long as you love her.

Although the media tend to highlight on failures of these marriages, there are hundreds of success stories from couples where the wife is a so called mail order bride. Online dating is getting more efficient as more people are finding their lifetime partners on line.

The term mail order bride goes back to the time when American pioneers ordered European women to accompany them in the new land, corresponding with them through mail. Now times have changed and the advent of the internet made contact much easier, and the term mail order brides does not apply anymore. Considering how much society has matured since those days, the term “mail order bride” is downright insulting to any woman. Nevertheless it is still used by the misguided.

Before you will marry your intended bride, you will have to correspond with her for a long time, fill her email inbox to overcapacity with your messages (and vice versa), make the telecommunication giants rich with the exorbitant fees you pay in making those frequent long distance calls, and finally you have to meet her in person. Not much mail order about that!

If you know how to search, you will find a gem from the many Filipina women who have submitted their application to look for foreign husbands. Surf through the internet for reliable matchmaking sites and the possibilities are endless. When you think you have found the ideal Filipina lady for you and you plan to take her seriously, it is time for you to visit the Philippines to meet her.

When you go searching for that Filipina lady, you are in control. Just a few clicks on your mouse and you can meet her in the comfort of your home. Time is on your hands, and you can write or chat with her when you are available.

Communication is not a hindrance when you find a bride from The Philippines as most of Filipino women are highly educated and speak very good English.

You may have heard hundreds of testimonials of how good it is to have someone waiting for you when you arrive home after work, someone who greets you and has a hot supper prepared for you. Right, the Filipina wife will do this for you because she loves you, but dismiss any idea that just because of the way that you found her, you can shout and order her around or treat her like a slave. Do not be surprised if she hollers at you back or walks out on you. She is still a human being regardless of how and where you found her.

Reports from the Commission on Filipinos Overseas site that marriages arranged through these services appears to have a lower divorce rate than the nation as a whole, and 80 percent of these marriages lasted over the years. A word of caution, when you decide to choose a bride from the Philippines, think a thousand times because unlike goods you order from the internet, a Filipina bride is on a “No return, No exchange” condition.

Bad stereotypes have a bad psychological effect on mixed children, especially part filipinos?

From experience and acquaintance of others who are part caucasian and filipino, I have realised that I am not the only only one tormented by the stereotypes that filipinos put themselves into, i.e. housemaids, mail order brides, young girls with dirty old men, inability to communicate effectively or integrate in society. I never expose myself as being part of this race (luckily I have taken the caucasian side and no one ever questions me about my heritage) due to the degrading stereotypes that I do not want to even associate with, although i love my parents dearly. When will these people stop doign these degrading things? This is the general opinion in the UK and I have heard that it is different in the USA?

There are plenty of stereotypes in the USA. But I’m concerned. You are part filipino and part caucasian and yet you never “expose yourself as being part” of your filipino ethnicity? Isn’t that degrading by definition? You’re making yourself less of what you are. Forget about what other people think. Be proud of your heritage!
If you have children, they will also be mixed. Teach them to love themselves for who they are and people’s ignorance will never affect them!